No one said you were a slacker, and the remark about nursing until 6 or 7 was hearsay. Not directly from LLL. I really wonder how much was actually said, and how much is rumor (which can be exaggerated)!
I've not had any misinformation or negative remarks from anyone who is or was a LLL leader. This is a case where I need to experience it to believe it. My appologies to those who have personally had negative experiences, but I cannot tell what is real and what is rumor.