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post #81 of 266

Just stopping in briefly while on a break at work...

 

12 DPO, POAS this morning, BFN.  Been obsessing over pre-missed period symptoms all morning, looking everything up.  Then a little ago, I get cramping and sure enough, AF started within 15 minutes.  BUMMER.  Pretty upset about this BFN.  We will be skipping out on cycle to have the test to check for blockage of the fallopian tubes, and then hopefully we will have enough saved to try with May's cycle.  Hoping for generous family gifts for my graduation!!!  It will about be the only way we would have enough :/

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Sorry esenbee!  I hope you have a good break and you are back at it soon.  Happy graduation!

 

I hope everyone is having happy Passover and/or Easter with your loved ones!

post #83 of 266

Just checking in...

 

Esembee~ Sorry about your BFN.

 

Invite~ Sorry to hear that things are on hold right now for you. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers....hope everything turns out okay.

 

AFM~ I had my 1st beta...and I didn't get the results, but I took a HPT this morning (12dp3dt) and it was a BFN...so we are out for this cycle. I still have to go back on Monday for a 2nd beta and then they will call me to tell me what I already know that its a BFN. I'm not sure if we will try another IVF cycle or if we will wait a few months as I work on droping a few lbs and we save up a some money, and try another IVF cycle in July. I'll be back on Monday or Tuesday when I get the offical beta results.

 

Gelly

 

Happy Passover and Easter!

post #84 of 266
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Esenbee. sorry to hear about the BFN.. here is hoping you get $ as graduation gifts:) I hate how  expensive sperm is :( 

 

Gelly.. I am sorry to hear about yout BFN but it is still early.. so it could still be positive,, FX for you!!!!

 

Pokey.. Happy Easter/Passover to you too!

 

AFM,,

 

 

not much to report just taking meds and sleeping a lot

 

 

 

post #85 of 266

So we had our first donor failure ever... KD had a shitty day and then had "mechanical problems" while trying to get us the swim team.

 

Total bummer, because of COURSE DWs signs are perfect... oh well.  KD is so so so upset, I told him to go home, we'll feed him coffee and sugar in the morning, I'm sure he'll feel better after it. 

 

 

Gelly, I'm sorry about your BFN.  :(  I hope it's just too early too, like Cananny.  

 

 

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Gelly - I'm so, so sorry. grouphug.gif

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Sorry to hear about bfn's this weekend, just popping in to see if I have any cycle buddies. TWW starts today for us! IUI went just as well as the first one two years ago so we have everything crossed!
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invitn -- you're in my thoughts, and i'm sending you all the good wishes i can.  i'm sad that you are taking a break, but hopefully, you'll get your health issues sorted out and be back with us very soon.  hug2.gif

 

rs11 -- hey gal, how are things?  i hope you got back to baseline with no further issues and that you are back on the rollercoaster with us.  

 

gelly -- i'm so sorry to hear about the bfn, but i will still keep my fingers crossed that the beta will give a different result.  *hugs*

 

fishymcdarkside -- merci pour tes bons souhaits!  we had a lovely time with my parents including a dinner cruise on the seine that was magnifique.  we'd never do that kind of thing on our own, but i'm so glad we had the opportunity.  so, what happened after the big donor letdown the other day?  was he able to rise to the occassion and produce some good results the next morning?  poor guy, i bet he felt really embarrassed.  

 

cananny -- have you figured out how to juggle work with all the monitoring?  and how's the supermedicated cycle going so far?  my DP has her second shot tonight and seems to be handling things pretty well other than an emotional "cloment" yesterday.  she wanted me to ask you about your dosages.  she was on 100mg of clomid from cd2-6 and now she's on 75iu of follistim until her u/s on thursday.  what about you?  i really hope it's the combo you need to get that bfp. fingersx.gif

 

carmen -- i voted for your lil cutiepie.  i hope she wins!  how are things looking with your cycle now?  any sign of the mighty O?

 

esenbee -- oh my, you and your DP are frakking adorable.  what a sweet couple you make.   i'm sorry about the bfn and AF, and i hope you  will be back ttc ASAP.  i hope the hsg goes well.  as many people told me when i had mine, your fertility increases for the three months following it.  fingers crossed for tons of graduation money so that you can pay for may's swim team!

 

outdoorsy --  how you feeling, gal?  i hope that chilled out vibe is still with you.  hugs and goodvibes.giffor this cycle.

 

pokey -- my docs actually have their patients do a second trigger shot a week after the first instead of the vaginal progesterone.  i got *really* bad heartburn after the shots, and that seems to be a side effect of progesterone, so i guess it works.  i chose to use the progesterone instead of doing the second trigger shot this round because i was worried about hyperstimulation.   the spooge pills  vaginal progesterone is icky, but it seems to work well for most women.  wishing you both luck and courage :) 

 

hopeful -- you're at about 9 or 10dpo now, no?  how are you feeling and do you have any interesting symptoms?  isn't not charting liberating?  i'm glad to hear your stress is down, and i hope you can keep it that way.  f/x for you this cycle!

 

 

 

afm.........

 

i hope i'm not being insensitive to anyone here by sharing what the easter bunny brought me:

 

 

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i'm at 12dpo and i was mostly testing to see if i could stop taking the progesterone.  the second line started appearing on the cheapie test before i even got it out of the cup, and i was so freaked out that i started shaking and had to go and ask DP if i was imagining things.  DP took one look at the test in my shaking hand and started crying tears of joy.  i know it's very, very early, but we've never had even a faint line in all the time we've been trying, so it's a big deal.  i'll have a beta tomorrow and probably get the first results on wednesday.   :)

 


Edited by nosreves - 4/10/12 at 4:00pm
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Nosreves, That is fantastic!  Congratulations!  Would you like a parade now or after your beta?  I'm so happy for you and your DP.

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Nos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so so so excited for you!!!!!!!!! joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif  joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif joy.gif  I am sending all my sticky vibes your way!! CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU AND DP!!! You deserve this mama!!!

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nores....omg omg....im.so beyond thrilled...im on my phone so to.hard to type...ill post veggies and personals later!!!!!!!!!! but saw this and i'm so over the moon for you......
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Nosreves- Your post just made my day! Nothing faint about those lines (I'm predicting a nice and high beta).  I could not be happier for you and your DP!!! Congrats!!! joy.gif joy.gifjoy.gifjoy.gifjoy.gifjoy.gif

post #93 of 266

omg nosreves, congratulations!!!!!

 

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Whooo hooo! Congrats Nos!!!! joy.gif
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NOSREVES!!!!  CONGRAT'S  Those are amazingly bold lines!

 

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Congratulations, Nosreves!!!!!

 

Thrilled beyond belief for you and your DP. What a great easter gift!

 

Not that we all don't deserve it, but I will say that it is particularly gratifying to see someone who has been trying for a long time to get a BFP. This seriously made my day! Wishing you a healthy and happy nine months!

post #98 of 266
Oh yay nosreves!! We are jumping up and down over here for you! We were about to make finish making you fertility tea today and got some fertility rocks for you and now you're pregnant!! Woohoo! Now we can send you pregnancy tea instead! Shall we send you the fertility tea for your partner still?! Man do I have a huge feeling of happiness and smile on my face!! Even shay is cheering for you!!

Congrats! Way to go to those belgiums!


When's dp test?!
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NOSREVES - Félicitations!! I am so very happy for you both! 

post #100 of 266
Oh my god, nosreves!!!!

This is such amazing news, you've just made my day so incredibly bright! Congratulations to you and DP! I am tearing up, just thinking about you. I'm so happy for you both!
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