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post #41 of 93
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LOL Sarah. If I could look down there, I would let you know...

 

Casmer - Thats rough. Both of those things. My Dad was kind of the same way most times in his life - path ways to walk places and yucky stuff around every corner. As for your sister and a care package that is a sweet idea, but as for the food thing...geesh, I am clueless. I don't know what all can be considered a trigger to someone living with that mind set. I wish I had some advice, but I don't. Wait--- Maybe a nice thought ful card and a gift certificate to a local massage/manicure/pedicure place? Most of the time it will cost about the same amount as individual items and shipping and I know that I would love to receive something like that during finals...

 

I am going to go get ready and the car packed and oil, water, air checked for our trip to the valley today. Every one be safe and healthy and I'll be back in a few days <3

 



lol I can't see it without a mirror! 

post #42 of 93

Astria & rozzie & julie & everyone outgrowing stuff -- I'm quickly outgrowing everything as well! I have been outgrowing my maternity wardrobe for some time now, actually. Even my previously super-comfy maternity jeans are feeling too snug. Fortunately it has been in the 80's here and I'm wearing stretchy cotton old navy maternity skirts with stretchy tank tops every day. Sometimes I pull out the maternity cargos that still fit but they are getting a little snug as well. For cleaning around the house, I'll sometimes just put on one of DH's t-shirts with a cotton skirt. For work, I am borderline unprofessional with these skirts and tank tops (Although I do slip on a cardigan) but I only have 3 weeks after spring break before I go on maternity leave so whatev. And YES for the old navy tanks! Onemore is right -- they are super long...although I got white and it wasn't any bigger than the others. Weird. 

 

mlovesj - spinning babies!! My little guy is currently transverse as well. He was head-up until just a few days ago then he seemed to flip head down but now he has bobbed up into a transverse lie and seems quite comfortable. I've been cleaning on my hands and knees to help him turn (and my house seriously needs the cleaning anyway!) 

 

rozzie, you're so lucky that your DH wants sex! I am the one wanting it and DH doesn't seem interested...although who can blame him? I'm 0% sexy these day LOL! It also could be that in the evenings when we are both home together the baby is his most active so when we snuggle DH gets to feel tons of kicks and movement and that constant reminder that I'm a baby machine is probably a total turn off :-)

 

casmer -  hug2.gifmy DH's grandparents and aunt are hoarders so I completely understand your situation. I simply avoid their homes and if anyone mentions it I politely, honestly, explain that i do not feel it is a safe environment and we would be more than happy to meet at the park or some other location. I want them to be a part of the kids lives, but I'm not going to spend time at their house when it is truly hazardous. DH's grandma has huge newspaper piles almost as tall as me that would crush a small child if they fell. Not to mention fire hazard.  It is so hard when you know they feel bad about it too. 

 

Sarah, I pulled out a hand mirror just for you ;-) My princess puff is certainly darker and yes, I think it is from increased blood flow to the area. Mine is puffier as well (then again ALL of me is puffier!) 

 

ETA: I have eaten 1/2 a tub of Trader Joes Spinach and Kale Greek Yogurt Dip this afternoon. It is so good! Hubby is going to make fun of me if he gets home and the entire tub is gone. I don't think he's even gotten to taste it yet! 

 

post #43 of 93

I'm just so darn uncomfortable. And babe moves a lot at night as well. So I get distracted by that. DH is like a 12 year old. lol.
 

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rozzie, you're so lucky that your DH wants sex! I am the one wanting it and DH doesn't seem interested...although who can blame him? I'm 0% sexy these day LOL! It also could be that in the evenings when we are both home together the baby is his most active so when we snuggle DH gets to feel tons of kicks and movement and that constant reminder that I'm a baby machine is probably a total turn off :-)

 

 

post #44 of 93

I feel like if I wake up before I want to, then I need to be *really* still because otherwise the baby wakes up too and it's like having a jack rabbit inside of me!  Luckily she hasn't started moving around when DH wants to "be close"...haha.

post #45 of 93

Meredith, I'm with you... we have pretty regular sex, but I wish we were having more.  There is something about pregnancy hormones... :)  I'm not saying I don't feel huge & awkward or that feeling the baby's kicks and movement in the midst of intimacy isn't a little distracting!  lol  I keep telling my man that in a few weeks he won't have this problem - 6 weeks of postpartum restrictions plus exclusive breastfeeding will definitely change my needs and hopefully he won't feel the opposite extreme (neglect).  :(

 

I'm also in the same boat clothing-wise.  Shirts that are too short, under-the-belly maternity pants that feel like torture they're so tight, only one pair of comfy pants that function as pjs, yoga pants, loungewear, etc.  I am having to do regular laundry just to make sure that particular pair of pants is clean!  I love the inexpensive suggestions - men's tanks, Old Navy pull-on skirts, XL baggy sweatpants.... I am working full-time with no maternity leave in sight, so I need to figure out a way to stay presentable & comfortable for a few more weeks.

post #46 of 93

Casmer--ideas for non-food care package stuff: smelly things.  I love natural shea butters and essential oil-type roll-ons, natural soaps, the kind you can find in the smelly section of Whole Foods (in Canada, I go to a shop called Sage to treat myself to smelly things).  I just got rose and geranium oils to put in a crock pot of water to infuse wash cloths during labor, so that's why that kind of thing is on my mind right now.  Incenses, candles. 

 

Books are good (or book gift certificates).    

 

Does she journal? A nice journal and pen, maybe.

post #47 of 93
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Casmer--ideas for non-food care package stuff: smelly things.  I love natural shea butters and essential oil-type roll-ons, natural soaps, the kind you can find in the smelly section of Whole Foods (in Canada, I go to a shop called Sage to treat myself to smelly things).  I just got rose and geranium oils to put in a crock pot of water to infuse wash cloths during labor, so that's why that kind of thing is on my mind right now.  Incenses, candles. 

 

Books are good (or book gift certificates).    

 

Does she journal? A nice journal and pen, maybe.


I think those are all really great ideas.  I know she used to write quite a bit, but I'm not sure anymore.  She pretty much moved as far away as she possibly could from everyone while still staying in the US, so I feel like I don't know much about her anymore :( .  She's going to India this summer, so she might find a journal useful.

 

post #48 of 93

I'm new here, and joining in...

 

 

Weeks/Days along: 34 weeks 4 days

 

Appointments: None this week

 

Symptoms: Baby is super active, I feel her moving all the time.  My thighs hurt.

 

Food: During this pregnancy I've developed intolerance to dairy and gluten.  It's been really hard for me to eat enough to keep my energy up or gain any weight.  I'm really depressed about food in general, and really sick of having to make everything from scratch.  Also our food costs have gone up because the substitutes are all so expensive.  Waiting on the official allergy test to come back from the naturopath next week.

 

Exercise: been getting out for an evening walk with the dog more nights a week, which is nice time with my partner and son as well, although the motivation to get out the door is very difficult to find.

 

Body changes and other milestones: My legs hurt and I'm starting to waddle.  No one can believe I'm this far along, because my belly isn't that big.  But I am 6 feet tall so baby has a lot of vertical space to grow.  It was the same way with the first one.

 

Thoughts: I've been pretty depressed throughout this pregnancy, feeling lonely and self isolating.  The last two weeks I've been almost back to my normal self, feeling hopeful and enjoying planning for the baby.  I'm really happy and relieved about this lift in mood and hope it holds!  I'm focusing all my energy on preparing for the birth, both practically and emotionally and it feels really good.

post #49 of 93

 

Weeks/Days along: 35w 5d EDD May 3rd I think

Appointments: 36 week appointment tomorrow (I still don't have all my stuff prepared, and my midwives check tomorrow!)

Symptoms: some pelvic pressure. a big appetite that comes and goes. forgetful. 

Food: I could live off kale, strawberries, and cheese right now. oh and sushi. I wish it wasn't so expensive.

Exercise: walking every day (trying for 3 miles a day, we'll see if I can keep it up), swimming 2-3 times a week, yoga 1-2 times a week. I think I'm done rock climbing until after baby, I just don't feel like dragging my belly up vertically.

Body changes and other milestones: I feel huge and baby feels squished! baby's been moving a lot more recently, lots of pushes and kicks. I don't even bother with kick counts because I'd been getting 10 kicks in like 2 minutes. 

 

Thoughts: I'd really love it if baby could come a bit early (like 38-39 weeks as opposed to 41+). I don't know if there's any real evidence that having an active pregnancy can make labor come earlier, but I'm giving it a shot anyway. I'm reading Ina May's Guide to Childbirth and the women on The Farm seem to walk a lot - it definitely sounds like they're attributing easier labors to that, but I don't know about earlier. my parents swear it works (my mom went into labor at least a week before her EDD in all three pregnancies). 

 

we went on a mini-vacation (3 days) to a little beach town near Santa Cruz, which was really nice. we're both excited and nervous about birth. he's been focusing on how he can support me in labor which is sweet. I like him.

post #50 of 93

In Jenny McCarthy's pregnancy book she refers to it as "the blue twinkie." You should definitely google it! :)
 

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This is most certainly TMI, but I don't want to Google it.

 

Is anyone else's "princess puff" kind of purple-ish?  I'm thinking it's due to an increase in blood flow to the area, but I just want to make sure.  And like I said, I'm too chicken too Google it.  lol



 

post #51 of 93

Welcome BrokenFish! This is a great place to be if you're feeling a little lonely. :)

 

My best friend just gave up gluten and dairy (per a suggestion form her naturopath) and she too is making just about everything from scratch. I can't imagine being in that situation while pregnant, you are one tough cookie!

 

Maryamrose, your exercise routine is amazing! Good for you! I can barely get one mile in per day and that's splitting it up between two different walks!

post #52 of 93

I have to make everything from scratch b/c of my DDs allergies I feel your pain!

post #53 of 93

Welcome BrokenFish!!

 

I'm still fitting in most of my maternity clothes but I feel much more comfortable in my motherhood black maxi skirt, motherhood leggings (both with full nylon like bellies) and some sundresses from Old Navy. I am LOVING being pregnant during the Spring. It's so much nicer wearing dresses and skirts then winter stuff like with my other two kids. I will be planning for a Spring/Summer baby next time too. I am also loving all the sunlight and the fact that everyone around me is in a much better mood then in late November. I didn't think that there would be that much of a difference depending on the season you give birth but wow, I have found this to be totally different.

 

Weeks/Days along: 34 weeks 5 Days (according to what my OB is going by) but 34 Weeks 2 Days according to me.

 

Appointments: Just had one yesterday and we are going to skip next week and do the following monday.

 

Symptoms: So much pelvic pain and pressure and hip pain. My belly support band helps a little but not as much as I would like. I feel pretty good though besides that- I am not swelling and I have no trouble breathing (this baby has been low) and fingers crossed- the heartburn has been staying away this time. I am really tired and emotional. I feel very connected to my family and have no desire to socialize outside of the home even though my friends have been trying to get in their visits with me "one last time" before bebe arrives. I am snippy and a bit short tempered by the end of the day with my kids but I can start crying and pull them in close in the next minute. They must think that I am CRAZY!

 

Food: Still apples, ice water and now grapefruits! I bought a bag of Tropicana grapefruits and they were the most delicious thing that I have ever had. I am also back on an ice cream kick- only neopolitan.

 

Exercise: I never sit down. That has got to count for something.

 

Body changes and other milestones: Boobs are increasingly floppy and pancake like and it's getting harder to shave my legs (the negative side of wearing all those sundresses and skirts). Belly just keeps growing.

 

Thoughts: I had an ultrasound at 33 weeks that estimated the baby to be 7 lbs already. I totally understand how far off that estimate can be but the tech said that it's much more reliable at 33 weeks vs later in the pregnancy. I believe it to be true after my first two giant babies. I am really proud of myself though because I have only gained 30 pounds so far and that is by far the least amount that I have ever gained. At this point, I was at the 50 lb mark with my first two. I guess I just grow big babies whether or not I gain a ton of weight.

I am ready to hold my baby but my house is not ready and I have so much to do! At the same time, I have LOVED this pregnancy and I don't want it to be over. I am getting a bit weepy about how our little life will change and I am savouring the moments with my two older ones.

My mom is convinced that this time I will go into spontaneous labour and may be able to VBAC before my scheduled section on May 2. That would be amazing!!! DH and I are still doing the "dance" so maybe that will start something down below.

 

I am just going to brag about my awesome kids for a second. I have had to lay a lot on the couch or on my bed the last week. My 3 and 5 year old have no problem just letting me lay and they play quietly together near me so that I know they are safe. They are understanding and sympathetic beyond their years. I actually think that I am resting more than when I was pregnant the first time which is quite the accomplishment by number 3. They are remarkable children and I am so very thankful.

 

Again, I am not reading this post over or doing spell check so I hope it makes sense. I am pretty groggy this morning.

We are getting so close ladies- I am so excited to share all of this with all of you and I LOVE reading your updates. I really need to bring a notepad with me when I sit at the laptop so I can jot notes down about all of your updates because there is so much I want to comment on!!

post #54 of 93
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Welcome BrokenFish!!

 

I'm still fitting in most of my maternity clothes but I feel much more comfortable in my motherhood black maxi skirt, motherhood leggings (both with full nylon like bellies) and some sundresses from Old Navy. I am LOVING being pregnant during the Spring. It's so much nicer wearing dresses and skirts then winter stuff like with my other two kids. I will be planning for a Spring/Summer baby next time too. I am also loving all the sunlight and the fact that everyone around me is in a much better mood then in late November. I didn't think that there would be that much of a difference depending on the season you give birth but wow, I have found this to be totally different.

 

 

I love it too!  It's so nice to be able to get outside and enjoy the fresh warm air!  :D  Spring makes me happy!  Also, I love being able to take the baby out (almost) right away.  And not be stuck in the house because it's too cold and everyone is sick!  I'll have two Spring babies, and I don't think I'd choose any other time to have one!  :D

post #55 of 93
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Originally Posted by poppyseed2012 View Post

In Jenny McCarthy's pregnancy book she refers to it as "the blue twinkie." You should definitely google it! :)
 



 



Google "blue twinkie"?  lol  Do I need to wait until SO goes to work?  lol

post #56 of 93

So my cousin has asked what our little girl's name starts with. She said she understood if we didn't want to tell and she'd just give us the gift afterward.  So we've decided not to tell family because we don't want everyone's opinion on whether or not they like the name.  It's DH's grandmother's name....Lola.  So, I have a couple of options:

 

1. Wait until after she's born and get the gift later

 

2. Tell her it's "L" and have it possibly be guessed by my MIL at the family shower

 

If I go with option 2, I won't answer anyone's guesses obviously (I'm not sure if I'm a good liar or not -LOL).  I like that people want to know her name, it's creating a mystery of sorts for some of our family...MIL has tried to get DH to tell her :)  I guess there's a chance it could spoil that mystery, but maybe at the same time create a little more mystery?  We'll only be a month out at that point. 

 

This is my side of the family's first "grandkid" so everyone is excited.  For DH's side, she's one of many.  I really like that there's some genuine curiosity. 

 

So what do you think??

post #57 of 93

Casmer, I would keep it a secret and get the gift later :-) 

We are not telling family the name (it is Deacon) and there are those people who are begging to know just the 1st letter and stuff and I just say "Sure I'll tell you!....as soon as he is born" 

 

Everyone knows it has 2 syllables and ends in "N" though because that is my baby-naming rule. Both of my other boys have names that follow that pattern and maybe I'm a little type-A or OCD or something but this one just had to match! 

 

Wow, Linnie you've only gained 30 pounds and they estimate baby is already 7? That is amazing! I've already gained 40+ and with 5 weeks to go I am pretty sure this pregnancy is going to end in a 50+ pound gain. Never sitting down must keep you nice and fit ~ I have been spending an increasing amount of time on the couch these days.

 

 

post #58 of 93

I've gained 50 WHILE nursing on demand and eating pretty damn healthy! irked.gif

post #59 of 93
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So my cousin has asked what our little girl's name starts with. She said she understood if we didn't want to tell and she'd just give us the gift afterward.  So we've decided not to tell family because we don't want everyone's opinion on whether or not they like the name.  It's DH's grandmother's name....Lola.  So, I have a couple of options:

 

1. Wait until after she's born and get the gift later

 

2. Tell her it's "L" and have it possibly be guessed by my MIL at the family shower

 

If I go with option 2, I won't answer anyone's guesses obviously (I'm not sure if I'm a good liar or not -LOL).  I like that people want to know her name, it's creating a mystery of sorts for some of our family...MIL has tried to get DH to tell her :)  I guess there's a chance it could spoil that mystery, but maybe at the same time create a little more mystery?  We'll only be a month out at that point. 

 

This is my side of the family's first "grandkid" so everyone is excited.  For DH's side, she's one of many.  I really like that there's some genuine curiosity. 

 

So what do you think??



I would just wait.  If they guess it's going to be hard to deny it.  Or it would be for me anyway.  I'm a horrible liar.

 

We've been telling everyone who asks.  Thankfully, if anyone hates it, they haven't said so! 

post #60 of 93

Yeah, I'm going to wait.  You ladies and DH are all in the same boat.  I think I'm just getting excited :)  I also don't want to hear my grandmother complain about how I didn't name the baby after her or her mother...yes she's the type that will do that!  She used to tell me how I was *supposed* to be named Jessica (because that's her mother's name), but my dad saw my name and chose it instead.

 

 

Weight gain...I was 135# pre-preg and at my last appointment I was 159#...so 24#?  I've never weighed over the 130s before so I'm not sure what to think about my weight gain.  I'm surprised that I don't feel bad about it...I actually feel good right now.  I definitely have put some lovely fat/cellulite in my butt and thighs.  I'm hoping that will give me plenty of incentive to get out and exercise post-partum.  I'm 33 weeks tomorrow, so I'm curious what my final weight gain will be.  I guess according to pre-preg BMI I should gain the 25-35#, but I don't put much stock in those sorts of recommendations.  I eat when I'm hungry and I'm doing good about not eating too much junk, so if I end up gaining more than the "recommended" so be it!

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