Background: ex and I split up dec just gone because he was having an affair with his teenage barmaid. The only mutual friend we have is my friend, I'll call her Jane, and her stbh John. John is ex'a best friend and works at his pub (and in all likelyhood knew about his affair all along) Jane was very upset when she found out what was going on and totally on my side (she hasn't spoken to ex since)
So Jane and John were a couple that we have hung out with all through out relationship- they are the same age, have same age children (to whom we are god parents). They announced that they were getting married around the same time that ex and I split.
There wedding is on what would have been ex and I's 10th anniversary. Also the wedding will be the first time I will have to face all ex's friends (the majority of which knew about the affair all along)
I have already told Jane that I will be going to the wedding with the kids.
Today I got this from her: Hi, don't forget that the wedding is 7.30 saturday 14th april. You are both welcome to come or not its up to you, but you both can't put your arguments to one side even for one hour to see us get married that it proves that 10 years of good friendship means fuck all to you. Sorry to sound like a selfish bitch but that's how I feel x
I'm really upset by this... I am dreading the wedding and would love to not go but have never suggested that I wasn't going to go