So sometimes I wonder if I am ignoring my kids. We are on GAPS (a pretty strict diet that is supposed to solve my oldest's problems with eczema and allergies) and that takes a lot of time with cooking/prep. Then the regular overwhelming duties of keeping the house clean, bills, extended family, etc. I do spend time with them and discipline them and talk to them throughout the day. I also take them to storytime, etc. for fun. But I still feel like I don't do stuff with them. I honestly don't know what to do! When it was just the firstborn and before this diet, I spent loads of time building things, playing in water, drawing and writing letters. But now with #2, he still doesn't want to do most of the things I enjoy and can do with the 3 yo.
Any ideas of how to spend more quality time? How do I engage my 1 yo without losing my 3 yo, or engage my 3 yo without ignoring the younger (something I've felt I've done more of since his birth)?