After doing some research it seems she has a condition called Encopresis as she is now straining to go without success but soiling her pants quite regularly. I know this could have a root problem of a lot of changes in her life (including a new baby, her brother recently potty training and some issues at school) but we now really want to help her sort this out on all levels.
As an immediate solution my husband wants to give her an enema, I'm not sure I'm ok with it but we need to relieve the 'blockage' and then deal with the other issues she is going through.
Does anyone have any experience with this? I'm really quite desperate as the poor thing is suffering and I can't bear her being so stressed out about it as it's really starting to affect her.
Thanks in advance!