I'm just looking for some encouraging words as I have been trying to remain calm...
At 15.5 weeks I took the quad screen (after NOT listening to my midwife who recommended not taking it because of so many false positives), and it came back abnormal for Downs, 1:164.
I immediately started freaking out and went the same day for an ultrasound and to meet w/genetic counselor. Within 5 minutes of meeting with counselor, she had already pulled out her amnio folder and started showing me the procedure. I began asking questions, like about a level 2 U/S, would that recalc risk if it was normal- all her responses were negative. I asked why I wasn't even being recommended for a level 2 before an amnio and she said it doesn't help anything!
I had an U/S that day to check dates and the sonographer said everything looked good that she could see...I left that hospital confused and wondering if I really had to do the amnio...which I have never considered...
I went to a maternal fetal specialist just last week at 20 weeks and the level 2 sono was completely normal- DD is measuring perfectly normal, and there was no evidence of an DS markers. I want to be at peace w/my decision to decline amnio and know that the odds are in my favor, but just wish I had a doctor who would back that feeling up. Even though this specialist said there were no markers, she finished by saying how the baby could still have downs...and how the only way to know is by amnio and how my risk of downs baby is higher than risk of losing baby from miscarriage from amnio , so she strongly recommends...I live in NYC and know it is one of the most invasive hospitals that I went to, with a 34% c-section rate, so I'm trying to stay positive but I'm just so anxious...







Also, I totally agree with the butt covering bit.... I think a lot of good, evidence based decision making gets buried in the nonsense that comes with covering the collected asses of the medical/insurance establishment.
Only a few more months till we finally get to meet her!!
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