I ebf my dd until she was about 5.5 months old, and she still nurses around the clock now. She eats some food but very little (likes to play only). She was 7 lbs at birth and didn't double her birthweight until 6 months or so. Now she's 10 months old and about 16 lbs. Random people on the street comment on how small she is, they think she's 4 or 5 months old only. My mother thinks I'm lazy with giving her solids and that she's way too dependent on breastmilk. My dh is also concerned because she's a skinny baby.
Nowadays I take dd to playdates and she's always much smaller than other babies. Developmentally she's fine though. I've seen other ebf babies and they're all larger than she is, even though same weight at birth. Is it genes? Or my milk?