I feel somewhat mystified by people too, and tend to over analyze. My point was that you can't make assumptions about the neighbours behaviour because you don't have enough info. You don't know what she was asked - she could have gotten anything from "Can xxx come play with us?" To "the neighbours are out side" From the kid. She may have been busy, may have been avoiding you, may have not even known if you were there. Because you don't know, you might as well assume the best, that she had no idea you were there and was just busy, and that she assumes you will come say something if you want to get to know your neighbours. From what you've described, if sounds like you're still at square 1 on the getting to know you chart to me.
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4/23/12 at 4:29pm