We'll wait until after 12w for family. I'll probably wait a good long while for the kids. If I miscarry before that I might seek out support from certain people but I would want to grieve in private.
I am pregnant, yah, but I don't really connect with a "baby" concept until much later. My family will be thrilled. My MIL can be difficult about everything so who knows her reaction. Whatever it is I don't want to deal with it.