I don't know how to tell if it's a boy or a girl or anything, as this is my first. Buuuuuut... I strongly feel like she's a girl (and even refer to her as "her"). I've felt that way since before I got pregnant - that if I got pregnant I would have a girl - and nothing has changed.
However, my SO and my mother both have similarly "strong" feelings that it's a boy.
Either way, I will be happy, as long as the baby comes out healthy. Genders don't matter much to me as I'm a bit of a gender-bender myself and try not to buy into the stereotypical gender role idea. Clothes, colors, toys, etc. aren't gender-specific. I really don't mind if my boy wears pink and likes dolls, for example. Plus we have picked androgynous names (I myself have a man's name though am bio-female).
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