So sorry for everyone who has losses. It's weird, but it seems like so many people I know are going through really tough, stressful times. The irony here, this baby was a result of serious stress. There's only been two times that my cycle has been affected by stress, and that last time was around 17 years ago. This past cycle was when the stress became so overwhelming I wasn't sleeping right, not eating right...you name it, every thing was just off. So, my NFP was so not accurate. Woops. I had thought I might have been anovulatory that month even. I guess not. Well my point is, I was definitely not taking care of myself during this stressful time, and in a funny way I think this is God's way of ensuring that I actually take care of myself! Too funny. Good things can sometimes come out of bad things, and even if my stressful stuff has a horrible outcome if I wind up getting a happy, healthy baby out of it then hey, it's way worth it. Just take care of yourself mommas!
Called the midwives today, got an appointment for 12 weeks. I have to decide before that if I want any sort of prenatal testing because they'll likely need to set that up a week or so before the appt. I am not sure what, if anything, I would do. I think I need to have a discussion with DH. 3/4 pregnancies before I did the quad screen, just for peace of mind. But I believe I'm likely not going to get good results from that test at my age!