Something I've read about Aspergers says that one of the main symptoms is a lack of desire to be social. But my DS (who we are still trying to get diagnosed) is the total opposite. He craves social interaction and attention so much.
Sometimes he will go up to children on the playground and ask if they want to play. Of course, they have to agree to do exactly what he wants to do, but some children don't mind that. And he plays well with children who dont mind being told what the "plan" is and then following the plan. lol
I also know that he wants and needs alot of attention and alot of social "input". He needs someone to listen to him go on and on about things. Sometimes he does get in his world, but he gets happy when someone joins him. So it doesn't make sense to me that all Aspergers and ASD are simply not social.