My son died in 1997. In 2001 when I was pregnant with DS2, I finally got out all of DS1 pictures and put them in an album. I took a week and a lot of tears but it was very healing. My husband is relocating from overseas back to the US and so packing up the stuff we have there. Today he told me that he took apart the kids photo albums because they were too heavy for the luggage. I was stunned. I just started crying. Then he told me that he hasn't taken apart DS1 yet and would leave it but it was going to cause problems because it is so "heavy" and he has a limited amount of weight in the luggage. Then he lets me know that he had rearranged the pictures a while back anyway because I hadn't put them in "right". He said he made it better because now they are in chronological order.
I didn't get mad or yell or anything but I was so hurt that I started crying again. He says I am overreacting. He says I can just make it again. I don't want to make it again. I wanted the one I already did. I just keep crying on and off everytime I think about it. I thought if I posted here maybe I will be able to move past it. I keep going between being so sad and so angry. He doesn't know how many times today I just wanted to email him and tell him I'm done. Finished. Want out. The main reason I don't is because I have 3 young children that need their father.