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I just spent about 10 minutes on all fours, but... Now I'm lying on my side. Just too tired ... Oy. Maybe I will try to do more time on all fours tomorrow... During the day...

You can also sort of prop yourself up with pillows so your belly is hanging downward while you sleep. Lying on your left side with your right leg pulled across you and on the bed, and your right arm also on the bed can create a hammock for the baby to settle in, and encourages rotation.
post #142 of 180
Thanks Just1, this sounds promising -- I'll bring some extra pillows to bed tonight. I think I'm going to take a warm bath too just to try to release my back a bit.
This baby is crazy active right now.
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You can also sort of prop yourself up with pillows so your belly is hanging downward while you sleep. Lying on your left side with your right leg pulled across you and on the bed, and your right arm also on the bed can create a hammock for the baby to settle in, and encourages rotation.
post #143 of 180
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Originally Posted by cristeen View Post

Those may be contractions.  That's one of the joys of back labor. 

 

Oh, crappy :'( I was thinking "well, at least I've never had backlabour!" the other day, but I will be seriously pissed if the one time I tried everything I could think of to get a baby to turn anterior is the one time i get backlabour.

 

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Super Moon Cinco de Mayo Baby Extravaganza!   banana.gif Get your sombreros and margaritas ready ladies!!  banana.gif

 

whoo-hoo! Sorta keeping my fingers crossed for Saturday night :) On the one hand. On the other hand.... eh, I don't care how long it takes. It's more the every night I go to bed thinking, "tonight could be the night!" I will get so crabby by the end if I got overdue just becuase of that, but I don't really mind if baby stays put for awhile.

 

EXCEPT: It's 2:30 am. I've been awake since midnight. One kid woke up, then the other, then the first one, and then the gas pains started again. I figured I'd kill some time here until I start to at least feel tired again, and moving around a bit seems good for making me fart so I can hopefully sleep later. I am apparently eating all the wrong things (okay, I know I"m eating absolute garbage. During the day it's all I can manage to eat at ALL, but now i'm paying for it all night. Sucky).

post #144 of 180
Grace! I feel like I could write your posts these days. For what it's worth, I was having th back aches that you described, and last night took an amazing, warm bath complete with lavender salt scrub (thank you Trader Joe) and then promptly passed right out on my left side propped up on pillows as was recommended... The back aches have died down. I am feeling much better today. At home, planning to sit on the yoga ball after I spent some time rolling on it on my knees, like I did when I was in labor with DS.
I don't think it is back labor. I think it's just crampiness, like the body gearing up for labor - soon but not today...
I have to keep telling myself that even 2 weeks is soon. Although, I am not sure I will feel that way in a week after I go past my due date.

What are you eating during the day that is causing you so much gas?? I mean, everything causes me gas right now but from your posts it really sounds like you've had it bad these past few days. Maybe try some ginger or mint tea after dinner?
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Oh, crappy :'( I was thinking "well, at least I've never had backlabour!" the other day, but I will be seriously pissed if the one time I tried everything I could think of to get a baby to turn anterior is the one time i get backlabour.


whoo-hoo! Sorta keeping my fingers crossed for Saturday night smile.gif On the one hand. On the other hand.... eh, I don't care how long it takes. It's more the every night I go to bed thinking, "tonight could be the night!" I will get so crabby by the end if I got overdue just becuase of that, but I don't really mind if baby stays put for awhile.

EXCEPT: It's 2:30 am. I've been awake since midnight. One kid woke up, then the other, then the first one, and then the gas pains started again. I figured I'd kill some time here until I start to at least feel tired again, and moving around a bit seems good for making me fart so I can hopefully sleep later. I am apparently eating all the wrong things (okay, I know I"m eating absolute garbage. During the day it's all I can manage to eat at ALL, but now i'm paying for it all night. Sucky).
post #145 of 180

Lots of fruit and juice and raw veggies. Cooked vegetables look revolting these days and I'm pretty turned off by meat too. It's like all my first trimester food problems have returned with a vengeance, which has never happened to me before. Lots of white bread with iceburg lettuce and cheese. Yogurt. Wednesday I had poutine (french fries, salty gravy, cheese curds) for lunch and a white-bread and deli meat sandwich for dinner. Thursday I had split pea soup at MIL's for lunch, and 2 hotdogs for dinner. It's not horrendous, but definitely a lot different from how I normally eat. I'm eating more processed foods, I think, so I'm not sure if that's what's doing it or if it would be happening regardless of what I eat. 

post #146 of 180
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Originally Posted by Just1More View Post


You can also sort of prop yourself up with pillows so your belly is hanging downward while you sleep. Lying on your left side with your right leg pulled across you and on the bed, and your right arm also on the bed can create a hammock for the baby to settle in, and encourages rotation.

 

Maybe this is part of why I haven't been having issues this time around.  This is how I've been sleeping on nights I spend in my bed (as opposed to the couch).  It's the closest to on my stomach as I can get, and I sleep the best on my stomach. 

 

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Originally Posted by Astraia View Post

EXCEPT: It's 2:30 am. I've been awake since midnight. One kid woke up, then the other, then the first one, and then the gas pains started again. I figured I'd kill some time here until I start to at least feel tired again, and moving around a bit seems good for making me fart so I can hopefully sleep later. I am apparently eating all the wrong things (okay, I know I"m eating absolute garbage. During the day it's all I can manage to eat at ALL, but now i'm paying for it all night. Sucky).

 

Ugh.  DS is still up at least once a night, and last night he decided to make one of those nights when he seriously fought going back to sleep.  So by the time I got him back down *I* was wide awake.  irked.gif

 

And I agree with Rozzie - what on earth have you been eating that is screwing with your digestion so badly?  Personally, I have difficulty burping when I'm pg for some reason, so drinking a bottle of ginger ale helps both with the tummy upset/digestion and forces me to burp and expel that pressure that's building.  I buy Reed's or Maine Root, both in bottles, both are sugar sweetened (no HFCS), and use real ginger in actual detectable amounts (unlike every one in a can I've ever tasted). 

 

I've been eating a fair bit of crap lately, too.  But around here, crap means toast and butter for breakfast, cheese and crackers for lunch, an apple for snack, and then I do actually make dinner, since DH is home for that one.  Yesterday I fell in love with my crockpot oatmeal I made for his breakfast - it tasted like banana bread!  I always put dried fruit in there with the grain, and this time I used dried bananas, raisins and cinnamon.  I should have sprinkled some walnuts on top to really gild the lily, but I didn't think about it.  Definitely going to make that again. 

 

Weirdest dream last night...  I dreamt that I woke up on a Saturday and completely forgot about grocery shopping until it was too late to do it (you can't find parking within a mile of the market after 11). To realize HOW weird that is, you have to realize I've left the house at 8 am every Saturday for... over 3 years, since I know I was doing it when I was pg with DS (I went into labor at the farmer's market with him).  In all that time I've only skipped a few weeks, when I was out of town for some reason.  I've been going like clockwork for well over 5 years now, and if I'm an hour late, all the vendors mention they were starting to worry about me.  So NOT going is really strange.  But for some reason, in my dream, I just went about my day as usual and didn't realize until hours later.  Very weird. 

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1) I think this may be why I slept better last night as well! (by better, I mean that I only woke up two times to pee. but I was wide awake for a while from about 4:30 on...)

2) YUMMMMM that oatmeal sounds amazing. 

3) your dream. how interesting. did it cause you anxiety? or did you just notice you'd forgotten? wonder if the whole change in the family dynamic with Baby coming is the root of that one? 

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Maybe this is part of why I haven't been having issues this time around.  This is how I've been sleeping on nights I spend in my bed (as opposed to the couch).  It's the closest to on my stomach as I can get, and I sleep the best on my stomach. 

 

Yesterday I fell in love with my crockpot oatmeal I made for his breakfast - it tasted like banana bread!  I always put dried fruit in there with the grain, and this time I used dried bananas, raisins and cinnamon.  I should have sprinkled some walnuts on top to really gild the lily, but I didn't think about it.  Definitely going to make that again. 

 

Weirdest dream last night...  I dreamt that I woke up on a Saturday and completely forgot about grocery shopping until it was too late to do it (you can't find parking within a mile of the market after 11). To realize HOW weird that is, you have to realize I've left the house at 8 am every Saturday for... over 3 years, since I know I was doing it when I was pg with DS (I went into labor at the farmer's market with him).  In all that time I've only skipped a few weeks, when I was out of town for some reason.  I've been going like clockwork for well over 5 years now, and if I'm an hour late, all the vendors mention they were starting to worry about me.  So NOT going is really strange.  But for some reason, in my dream, I just went about my day as usual and didn't realize until hours later.  Very weird. 

post #148 of 180
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I had regular, contractions about 3 minutes apart for a minute or two, some very braxton hicks like, others like real contractions... but then I went to bed and they stopped. :(

 

I was excited!  My DD has a party she really, really wants to go to tomorrow, but then tomorrow would be the perfect day to day a baby!  So I am doing acupressure points, and walking, and getting this labor on today!  LOL
 

post #149 of 180
Forest, I'm having the start & stop BH too these days. They will go for a while and then if I eat, lay down, or get really excited and start telling DH "maybe this is it!??" they immediately stop.

Sarah~ today is the day! Didnt you say that midwives and everyone predicts today for your sweet little girl's arrival? Any contractions? :-)
post #150 of 180
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Forest, I'm having the start & stop BH too these days. They will go for a while and then if I eat, lay down, or get really excited and start telling DH "maybe this is it!??" they immediately stop.
Sarah~ today is the day! Didnt you say that midwives and everyone predicts today for your sweet little girl's arrival? Any contractions? :-)

 

We all decided today would be the best day for her to come.  I'm having lots of contractions off and on, but nothing regular.  I haven't checked my cervix lately, so I'm not sure if they're doing anything.  I'll check in a little while.  I think we'll have eggplant parm. for dinner and we'll see if that helps.  :)  I also found a YouTube video with some acupressure points that are supposed to help, so I'll try that later too. 

 

SO will be home this evening!  When he left he told her "Stay in there until Friday!" so when he gets home he'll tell her it's okay to come out now.  Maybe that's all it'll take.  :)

post #151 of 180
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SO will be home this evening!  When he left he told her "Stay in there until Friday!" so when he gets home he'll tell her it's okay to come out now.  Maybe that's all it'll take.  :)

 

My sister in law also requested that I hold off on giving birth until she got back in town today, so I'm thinking any time now would be fine.

 

I got myself a box of fancy chocolate caramels from a local chocolate shop. I'm allowing myself one per day, and I've got enough to last me to 40w4d. At which point, if I haven't given birth I'm getting another box and eating them without any rules.

 

And if I have given birth, the chocolate shop is about a block from the hospital, so I can send my husband out for a box just the same. :D

post #152 of 180
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My sister in law also requested that I hold off on giving birth until she got back in town today, so I'm thinking any time now would be fine.

 

I got myself a box of fancy chocolate caramels from a local chocolate shop. I'm allowing myself one per day, and I've got enough to last me to 40w4d. At which point, if I haven't given birth I'm getting another box and eating them without any rules.

 

And if I have given birth, the chocolate shop is about a block from the hospital, so I can send my husband out for a box just the same. :D


that sounds so yummy.... now I need chocolate. LOL

post #153 of 180
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Originally Posted by MeredithA View Post

Forest, I'm having the start & stop BH too these days. They will go for a while and then if I eat, lay down, or get really excited and start telling DH "maybe this is it!??" they immediately stop.
Sarah~ today is the day! Didnt you say that midwives and everyone predicts today for your sweet little girl's arrival? Any contractions? :-)


ugh, I think the best thing to do is just ignore them.  But it is so hard to not get excited! 

post #154 of 180

I love the box of chocolates idea! I'm trying to do what my MIL said I should do, and for every day of no baby treat it like "found time" to do that one thing I really wanted to do, clean something, bake something, read something- whatever.

 

Today and tomorrow I need to clean the car. I would have taken it to the local DIY carwash/shampoo/vacuum place except that DH accidentally took the car keys to work with him on the bus. I am DESPERATE for this car to sell, and if the guy coming to see it tomorrow is even remotely interested I'm at the point where I'll give it to him for pretty much whatever he feels like paying so we can just go and buy a minivan already!

 

Also kinda excited to go look at new vehicles :) I don't really want a minivan, exactly, but we need one so there it is.

post #155 of 180
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I love the box of chocolates idea! I'm trying to do what my MIL said I should do, and for every day of no baby treat it like "found time" to do that one thing I really wanted to do, clean something, bake something, read something- whatever.

 

Today and tomorrow I need to clean the car. I would have taken it to the local DIY carwash/shampoo/vacuum place except that DH accidentally took the car keys to work with him on the bus. I am DESPERATE for this car to sell, and if the guy coming to see it tomorrow is even remotely interested I'm at the point where I'll give it to him for pretty much whatever he feels like paying so we can just go and buy a minivan already!

 

Also kinda excited to go look at new vehicles :) I don't really want a minivan, exactly, but we need one so there it is.


We didn't want a minivan, but now I love it.  I wish they made ones with hybrid/better gas mileage, but that is really my only complaint.  Good luck selling the car! 

post #156 of 180

Hey ladies...

Not exactly frustrated with start and stop contractions (I expect it) but the really high pressure ones (1 out of 3) cause my dh to get this look of sympathy with "are you ok?" asked. I know he is

'on call' mentally waiting, and weird as it sounds - both of those together is exhausting me! Every one bet April 26-30th was the due date (even him) and I told them all they were crazy. So in their heads I am like way crazy 'over'.

 

I'm not sure where I am mentally to be honest. Going to do whatever I can to avoid any hospital interference outside of an emergency, but I haven't hit that point where I look around the (pristine, clean) house and see that every thing is done and cry in frustration cause baby hasn't come. No, I see 100 things I could do this minute but...no energy, means or desire.

Maybe thats normal with 3 little ones already? I haven't had any hardcore nesting this time. Just did my same ol' and tried to improve as I went along.

 

I slept 2 hours in 2 different increments today and last night. Lots of low frontal contractions - I use them as a reminder to practice the hypnobabies.

 

Told my mom and them not to bother coming back up today. I am still going to do the acupuncture at 430 and then either tomorrow (Sabbath for us, so I feel slightly bad about having it be done tomorrow but it is what day works better for mw) or Sunday the mw will attempt a stretch and sweep.

Some friends we fellowship with and havent seen since last sept. are coming up next friday. I love these people very much, but am a little concerned about having a fresh baby and being in a good mental state or being really overdue by that point and in a bad mental state. I will cross that bridge when we come to it I suppose.

 

I think I will make myself some salad rolls tonight.

post #157 of 180
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Originally Posted by KM84 View Post

 

My sister in law also requested that I hold off on giving birth until she got back in town today, so I'm thinking any time now would be fine.

 

I got myself a box of fancy chocolate caramels from a local chocolate shop. I'm allowing myself one per day, and I've got enough to last me to 40w4d. At which point, if I haven't given birth I'm getting another box and eating them without any rules.

 

And if I have given birth, the chocolate shop is about a block from the hospital, so I can send my husband out for a box just the same. :D


This is a great plan!  I usually buy a fancy chocolate bar and eat one square a day.  I ran out the other day and just about went crazy earlier trying to find something chocolatey...so I had chips and guacamole instead.  Not really the same thing.

 

You know what I really want though? I want to go to a deli and eat a big, cold deli sandwich.  I've been obsessing all day long about it.  I can't believe it could be 3-5 weeks before I can have one....aah!

post #158 of 180

I actually made dinner tonight! I attempted spaghetti carbonera for the first time. Not good. Definitely ended up with scrambled eggs :/

 

Casmer- I'm eating deli meat anyway :/ I know it's a no-no, but I haven't followed really any of the "don't eat" rules so whatev. It was also for about a week the only thing I could stomach except for oatmeal.

post #159 of 180
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This is a great plan!  I usually buy a fancy chocolate bar and eat one square a day.  I ran out the other day and just about went crazy earlier trying to find something chocolatey...so I had chips and guacamole instead.  Not really the same thing.

 

You know what I really want though? I want to go to a deli and eat a big, cold deli sandwich.  I've been obsessing all day long about it.  I can't believe it could be 3-5 weeks before I can have one....aah!

 

I'm another one on a chocolate kick.  Which is strange, since I don't usually DO chocolate.  I'm tempted to tell my DH he needs to bring me a box of Sees.  Allthough I could always go get it myself.  My big problem is that I've eaten the last 2 boxes within 3 days each.  Not really where I need to be going.  My trade off when I'm craving chocolate lately is peanut M&Ms.  I have a big bag of them, I fill one of the toddler's bowls, then put the bag away and eat them at my leisure.  Or else I bake brownies.  Early on in the pregnancy I made a big batch of rocky road candies - they lasted most of the pregnancy.  I may have to go get some more (handmade) marshmallows to do another batch this weekend. 

 

For the deli sandwich - I go to our local place and order shrimp salad.  I know they make it fresh every day, so I have no problem with it.  I wouldn't do it at someplace I didn't trust though.  I AM looking forward to a sushi feast.  I think I'm going to have to invite my friends up for one after baby is born - she doesn't like fish, but her DH and her oldest devour it.  We could even make a picnic of it. 

 

Today my productiveness has been limited to laundry, watching TV, and zesting 20 lemons for limoncello.  I have another 25 lemons to go, and I'm debating whether I want to make a second batch of limoncello or what I want to do with them.  Maybe roasted lemon marmalade if I can find that recipe again. 

 

Oh, and I did interview a doula.  I have another interview in 20 minutes. 

post #160 of 180
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I actually made dinner tonight! I attempted spaghetti carbonera for the first time. Not good. Definitely ended up with scrambled eggs :/

 

Casmer- I'm eating deli meat anyway :/ I know it's a no-no, but I haven't followed really any of the "don't eat" rules so whatev. It was also for about a week the only thing I could stomach except for oatmeal.


Me too. Not a ton, but whenever I want it I eat it.  There are so few things that actually sound good to me, so I just go with it!

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