So I had a bad experience with hormonal BC and now I am tracking my cycle. We've just not had sex for a few month except during time I know it was most probably a safe period. I need to get my husband to understand more because I can't/won't be the only one reading my body signals and deciding whether or not to have sex. Yes, I know we could use condoms but for some reason he is resistant. I kind of figured if he gets desperate enough, he'd use them. It's been 3 month, we have a buffet of condoms available - I bought 5-6 kids when breastfeeding that never got opened. So it's not like we don't have access. At this point, I'm desperate.
Is there a good resource for guys? I can't imagine him sitting down to read TCOYF and I don't think explaining the "charting to avoid" rules would be a good idea.
Oh and if anyone had tips for getting him more involved I would appreciate that too.