It just seems unethical to me, to intentionally conceive a child with your husband in order to give it to someone else.
This bugs the heck out of me. How could it be unethical to conceive a child who you have every reason to believe will be doted upon by adoring parents and have a great life? How could DNA possibly matter that much? I'm not saying that it doesn't matter at all, but SO MUCH that a child would be better off not existing than being raised by adoptive parents? I don't get it.