I am engaged to a Hazara from Afghanistan. We talk a lot of the future and he seems reluctant to tell me his expectations about our life together and us having children. He want us to be together and get married and all that, but I fear he is a little afraid of confirming stereotypes about men from muslim cultures. He don`t seem to have many opinions about how our children will be raised when it comes to culture, but if I tell him that I want our children to know their heritage and that I want them to learn his language he gets so incredibly happy. So to help make us a family with two cultures when that time comes, I want to learn as much as possible. I know other afghans, both hazara and other, but that is mostly men and the few women I know speak little norwegian. So what I am trying to say is that I miss this female perspective on this culture, anything would be appreciated.
I also wish to learn more of the language, but the language that is his, is hazaragi. But there are few resources out there, so I was wondering if anyone knows this language or knows how I can speed up the learning process.
I am also interested in hazara wedding traditions