my husband is the opposite. in the 3rd trimester when i'm huge and really not into it i have to pretty much push him off. in my first pregnancy we had sex at least once a week throughout. this time around it's slightly less often because our toddler likes to wake up at the most inconvenient times. do you think your husband doesn't want to have sex for fear of hurting the baby? i know a lot of guys fear that, in which case maybe give him some info about the safety of it. also, my husband tells me that sex feels amazing while i'm pregnant because the bigger my uterus gets the tighter it makes my vagina feel. after the baby is born you can't have sex for 6 weeks, and after that it will be several months *at least* till things tighten back up and feel normal. i had a normal birth with no tearing, and did tons of kegels, and it was still 6 months till sex really felt good again for both of us. so maybe tell your husband that if he doesn't get the (amazing)pregnancy sex now, he is looking at basically a year of nothing. i think men think that sex after baby is born will be the same as sex before pregnancy, and it just isn't. once you have a baby it gets hard to find time, or energy, and it does feel different. that may change his mind. some guys can't get past thinking that pregnant women are motherly and sortof untouchable....they feel weird that they are having sex with a mom. some guys just have a total block where they don't feel ok thinking of a pregnant woman in a sexual way. if that's the case, he may get over it while you're preggo, or he may have to get over it when the baby comes. guys are so funny, and surprisingly squeemish about a lot of things. i doubt that him not wanting sex means he finds you unattractive. i know pregnancy doesn't feel like the hottest time of your life, but it probably has more to do with one of the other weird, man reasons. have you told him how his not wanting sex makes you feel? i hope it works out in a way where you get as much sex as you end up wanting (some women get really horny when pregnant - my second tri i was a sex machine, but then third tri i wanted nothing at all), and your husband finds a way to feel comfortable. give him some time, and try to talk about his reasons as much as he is willing to.