My DD 15 has recently started dating a boy (and they are just dating as of yet... no labels.) He's a sweet kid certainly. DD seems happy. Her best friends have always been boys but no boyfriends. This is sort of new territory for us.
Anyway, my question is how to handle his mom. Every single time our kids get together, she wants to get together.... not to hang out with the kids so much as just hang out with me. I certainly like her enough but I don't know, it makes me a little uncomfortable too. I'm friends with several of my kid's friend's parents but I guess I'm a little thrown by the level of intensity in this particular situation. Plus, I don't know if I'm ready to hear all the baby stories and particulars of a boy that DD hasn't even decided how she totally feels about yet. Plus, I have to skirt around so many topics as I don't know how much mom is feeding back to her DS. I mean, DD may not be ready for him to know about her quirks and past friendships. Maybe that's it... I feel like I'm intruding on DD. On top of that, I have a younger child and DH who I want to spend time with too.
Anyone BTDT? I don't want to alienate her but I also am not ready to be her confidante.... and I don't want to mess things up for DD as she really has been happier than I've seen her in a long while.