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Poll Results: Why Choose Natural Childbirth?

This is a multiple choice poll
  • 12% (211)
    Concerns about medical risks/side effects to me.
  • 13% (227)
    Concerns about medical risks/side effects to my baby.
  • 1% (25)
    Concerns that epidural anesthesia wouldn’t work well enough, (e.g. only affect one side of my body).
  • 10% (168)
    Concerns about epidural anesthesia restricting my freedom of movement during labor.
  • 12% (205)
    Concerns about epidural anesthesia leading to an undesirable cascade of interventions.
  • 1% (27)
    Concerns about the extra cost, (esp. for those who are uninsured or underinsured)
  • 12% (200)
    Desire for my baby and me to remain alert during the birth and post-partum process.
  • 4% (79)
    Desire for faster labor.
  • 2% (34)
    I had an epidural with another birth and wasn’t impressed with the experience.
  • 6% (101)
    I had natural childbirth with another birth and was impressed with the experience.
  • 9% (156)
    It is/was really important to me to be able to feel my own “urge” to push and not have it coached or directed.
  • 6% (112)
    It is/was really important to me to have my baby out-of-hospital, so I was willing to forego an epidural in order to make this happen.
  • 12% (205)
    I have confidence in my body’s ability to give birth and my own ability to use natural pain relief measures.
  • 5% (82)
    Holy toledo! Have you seen the size of that epidural needle?
  • 2% (36)
    Other.....of course ;-)
1626 Total Votes  
post #21 of 73

I was concerned about side effects for me and the baby. I decided going in that I would not extrapolate ("If it hurts so bad now, what will it be like in an hour?") but just take it minute by minute. And it just never was so painful that I felt like I needed something.

post #22 of 73
It started for me as being scared &!@#less of having a huge needle going into my spine. Once I found out that's how an epidural works I decided against it. Then my friend told about her experience with an epidural & how it absolutely didn't work. Then I found out about the possible side effects & cascad of interventions. The I realized I wouldn't be able to move. There really seemed to be nothing positive about having an epidural. I had experienced significant pain before, childbirth is temporary, & it turns out it didn't hurt nearly as much as almost bursting my appendix. (Actually, I'm one of those crazies that will insist it didn't hurt at all, but...)

All those reasons and the medal!
post #23 of 73

I wanted to be able to move around.

post #24 of 73

I have never had an epidural.

 

Freedom of movement, urge to push, avoiding cascading interventions….these are all important to me.  

 

The idea of a needle going into my back does not seem like fun, either.

 

That being said, I have been blessed with relatively easy labours - if I had  long or difficult labours, I might be inclined to stick the needle in my own back!

post #25 of 73

I voted Other...I'm deathly afraid of (bladder) catheters.  That was enough for me to forgo an epidural.  I also have a ton of hardware in my back that would make an epidural iffy but my main motivation was not having someone stick a tube up there.  **shudder**  Any discomfort I felt during labor was nothing compared to having a catheter.  

post #26 of 73

I just want an intervention free birth because I despise needles and doctors as well. I love nurses, as well as rogue MDs who actually listen to me ( as rare as they are). I had a C section with my daughter, after I was in a car accident and had a 'difficult' pregnancy, and although it went OK, I had badly craved a natural birth.

post #27 of 73

I also chose several options.  I agree with previous posters- that the idea of the epidural was scarier than the idea of the pain.  I can deal with pain.  Anesthesia freaks me out.  I had a pain medicine free birth with my DD, despite pitocin induction (rising blood pressure) and those contractions were intense.  I am confident that I can do NC again, although I would really like to skip the pitocin this time as well.  I also wanted to skip any further interventions and thought that was my best chance and to bring my baby into the world with as few substances in her body as possible.  Haven't we studiously avoided all that might affect them all these months?  Only to load them up with drugs right before they come into the world- no thanks.  Oh and I have control issues too.  smile.gif

post #28 of 73
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Originally Posted by calanagear View Post

I just want an intervention free birth because I despise needles and doctors as well. I love nurses, as well as rogue MDs who actually listen to me ( as rare as they are). I had a C section with my daughter, after I was in a car accident and had a 'difficult' pregnancy, and although it went OK, I had badly craved a natural birth.

It stinks that you didn't have the control you wanted. Sometimes that happens -- with my third birth, I had high blood pressure and the doctor decided to give me pitocin to speed things along. I ended up having a precipitous birth (and no one believed it was happening except my husband). I felt so powerless. 

 

After my third baby, I had nightmares about his birth.. poor guy, now he's 19 and I'm over it... but for a while I had a hard time forgetting what happened.

 

I hope natural childbirth happens for you someday. I see that you're an extended breastfeeder; you should feel good about the natural food and nurturing you're giving your daughter now. 

post #29 of 73

I was really afraid of seizure complications since they run heavily in my family. I also did not want to and never have given birth in a hospital. I think if I gave birth in a hospital I WOULD have succumb to getting one, especially with the intensity of my last birth but I am always glad to not have the option of getting one in the end.

 

I know both my children have been very alert babies and nursed very well. I have never had any real intervention unless you count the MW pushing back DD2s shoulder as she had dystocia.

 

We were made to birth without meds so I prefer to follow that path.
 

post #30 of 73

My blood pressure tends to drop dramatically at the slightest introduction of any drug.  I'm also deathly allergic to Fentanyl (a common pain drug found in epidurals), so that's the reason that gets my doctors very alert and keen on keeping the birth natural (when I don't feel like debating).  But actually, even more than that reason, is everything said above: free movement, less interventions, the needle, etc.

 

After having my DD totally natural and med free in a hospital, I realized the biggest benefit of all when you go natural, especially without any pitocin, is all the lovely natural Oxytocin that is released throughout the labor.  Let me tell you, that was the best high I've ever experienced!  For two weeks after the labor I was floating on clouds!  It was bizarre and I didn't know that could be an effect.  I had no PPD, no issues with my milk; I wasn't even tired when I was getting only two hours of sleep.  I also had my placenta encapsulated and ate that for 3 months Sheepish.gif.  So who knows, maybe it was that too?  All I know is that I want that experience again!  But now I'm preg with identical twins and the docs are giving me the hard sell to go medicalized all the way.  And I'm fighting them.  But I hate confrontation, so it's been stressful.  In the end I just wish they'd respect my wishes and quit telling me how I could be putting my babies in danger.  I'm only 29 weeks and so far, no complications whatsoever and the twins are growing great!  So hopefully, I'll get the birth I want again...and that awesome high times two!!! kid.gif

post #31 of 73

The numbers are weird in the poll. They show the percentage of votes for each, not the percentage of respondents who voted for each.

post #32 of 73

It just felt right.  I miscarried naturally and that was very painful, but I just felt like that's the way it was supposed to happen.  3 natural full-term births later and I can't wait to do it again!

post #33 of 73
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Originally Posted by Gindugirl View Post
 I realized the biggest benefit of all when you go natural, especially without any pitocin, is all the lovely natural Oxytocin that is released throughout the labor.  Let me tell you, that was the best high I've ever experienced!  For two weeks after the labor I was floating on clouds!  It was bizarre and I didn't know that could be an effect.  I had no PPD, no issues with my milk; I wasn't even tired when I was getting only two hours of sleep.  I also had my placenta encapsulated and ate that for 3 months Sheepish.gif.  So who knows, maybe it was that too?

 

Yes, I had the postpartum euphoria also, both times.  It was great.  I did not keep my placenta so I'm pretty sure it was the birth hormones.

post #34 of 73

I chose other.

 

I have natural births for the same reason i had natural conceptions and breastfed.  Because i can.  I guess if i needed an epidural i'd get one...?  I've only had homebirths though, so i kind of go into it on the assumption that i won't need one.

post #35 of 73
Quote:
Originally Posted by kathymuggle View Post

I have never had an epidural.

 

Freedom of movement, urge to push, avoiding cascading interventions….these are all important to me.  

 

The idea of a needle going into my back does not seem like fun, either.

 

That being said, I have been blessed with relatively easy labours - if I had  long or difficult labours, I might be inclined to stick the needle in my own back!

No kidding!  At my homebirth, I was contemplating walking to the hospital for the epidural!!!  I have had 2 births with and 2 without.  I didn't "need" one with my first but I had them with the middle two and certainly would have had one for my 4th if I could have.  

 

I am not here to be team "rah rah" for epis, but they are magicial in some circumstances.  With my second, I was induced and wasn't going anywhere and very tense and my mw clearly did not want to be at the hospital (it was a holiday) so after the epi I was ready to push in about an hour when I'd been sort of hanging out at a 4 all day.  

 

My last birth was very, very painful.  I had back labor for the first time, the baby was over 10# and I think she wasn't positioned very well.  She came out with her shoulder pulled back and mw had to reach in and get her.  That wasn't fun.  

 

I don't regret the hb but I could "feel" that pain in my memory for a few years.  Having said that, everything else about the hb experience was perfect....completely perfect....

post #36 of 73
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Originally Posted by Youngfrankenstein View Post

I don't regret the hb but I could "feel" that pain in my memory for a few years. 

 

 

I had similar experience. I have only had natural births, 4 of them as well. Only one was in the hospital, I was not tempted that time to have pain meds. I have had the sense of postpartum euphoria, it was a great feeling, you feel like you are top of the world. With my 3rd birth though, it was so insanely painful. Had I been in a hospital setting I would of been screaming for meds. When he was finally out, I was just done. I didn't want to hold him, I nursed him, and literally gave him to DH to hold and took a nap alone. The pain had just exhausted me. I did take a while to bond with him. That child is 3 now and when I still think about his birth, all I remember is pain. No joy, no happiness, just severe, unrelenting pain. By the time I got to #4's birth, I didn't want to do it again, but I did, at home as usual. Another 20 hour labor, not as painful as the previous one though. Again no euphoria, just the semi-happiness that I would never ever ever have to do that again! Would meds have been better then some of those experiences? Maybe. 

post #37 of 73
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Originally Posted by Peony View Post

. I have had the sense of postpartum euphoria, it was a great feeling, you feel like you are top of the world.

I had that feeling after two of my natural births. I was literally doing laps around the hospital corridors looking for who knows what in a vending machine (I always seem to birth at night) and feeling like I had the personal soundtrack of "Walking on Sunshine".
post #38 of 73

If I am completely honest with myself, the reason I wanted a natural birth is because I wanted the birth high. I had concerns about over-medicalization of the birthing process, I wanted to avoid unnecessary interventions and medications for myself and my baby, but deep down, what I really wanted was to feel on top of the world. I wanted to feel powerful and amazing and beautiful.

 

That all seems a little naive to me now, given the profound humbling I received instead. But it's what made me gravitate to natural birth as my preferred path.

post #39 of 73

I, probably annoyingly, chose a few options. I was concerned about side effects for myself and the baby, not just over an epidural, but over the possibility that an epidural might lead to all sorts of other things, and cumulatively, I wasn't comfortable with those risks. I forgot to check that I was concerned about a cascade of interventions, but obviously, that was one of them. My biggest reason, honestly, for wanting a natural birth in all three of my children's births (haven't given birth this time yet, but today is my EDD, so any day now) is that I don't like the idea of turning over control to someone else. I realize that I can't control the labor process. I haven't been able to in either of my other kids' births and I know I can't this time either. However, as long as I'm birthing naturally and things are going well, I don't want to relinquish control to someone else, and to me, that's what having interventions means: giving up what little bit of control I do have.

 

Instead of being able to move around how I felt I needed to, I'd be restricted. Instead of being able to eat if I felt the need, I'd be given clear fluids. Instead of pushing when I felt the urge, I'd be told when and for how long. And often all of this would be based on nothing more than the whims of the care provider, since many obstetric practices aren't evidence-based at all. I know that some women feel that getting pain relief is what allowed them to remain in control, and I understand that, too, and I respect it. My second dd's birth was precipitous and the pain was really the kind of thing that could drive a person mad, if it had lasted much longer than it did, so I definitely understand why pain relief would allow some women to feel more control over the process. It's just not my personal preference. Honestly, after that birth I understand a LOT of things women do that I didn't understand before. I understand why people want to induce or have scheduled c-sections for no medical reason. I really do. I don't think it's the best choice for the baby or mother's health, but emotionally...I get it...I support it. I do.

 

So for me, while there are multiple reasons I choose natural childbirth, the biggest one really does come down to the "Other" of maintaining as much control as possible, which isn't much, but it's  better that it remain in MY hands than in the hands of some doctor. I can't give up my power (I know, this is starting to sound all new agey, and I'm really not that way, but that's the best way I can explain it) to someone else just for my a little comfort. My strength and my power are more important to me than that. I am STRONG and I don't need to be saved or rescued. Obviously, there are situations in which I might need to make the choice to have interventions, but it will be because they were necessary, not just because I wanted someone to save me from my pain.

 

I hope no one feels like I'm belittling their choices. Once upon a time, I would have. Not now. These are just the ways I feel about interventions for myself. I get that not everyone feels that way and that's cool with me. Other women feel like the best way to remain in control is to get that epidural or whatever. That's cool too. :)

post #40 of 73
Lol about the medal comment. My MIL could not understand my reasons for wanting natural births. She totally thinks I "suffered" unnecessarily for bragging rights.

My reasons were mostly medical. I worried about the effects of pain meds on the baby and I worried that any unnecessary interventions might lead to a c section. My babies ended up weighing 9.5lbs and 9lbs(posterior) each so I wonder if I had had an epideral, if i would have still been able to push them out or not.
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