I'm new here, looking for support from other mom's who understand the situation.
I have three children with my ex, 11 yo DS, 4 yo DD, 2 yo DS.
We split due to domestic violence two and a half years ago (he landed me in the hospital). He moved on quickly, or rather moved in with the woman he had been cheating with.
This woman has been obsessed with me since day one and lately she has gotten worse, the threats, the bad mouthing, the games are getting worse. My lawyer googled her name and was shocked by her postings, this woman rants about how terrible a mother I am, how my children are perfect because of her, how she wants to beat the $h!! out of me, how my children do not love me, she makes them call her mom etc. She even posted something about me on my birthday (I don't know or care when her birthday is and I don't post about her nearly daily or really at all, this is the first posting about the woman I have done and that's because I'm at the end of my rope).
I really don't care what they do unless our children are involved. They have an unstable relationship and have broken up (and called police on each other about 30 times in the past 2 and a half years)
We have court ordered visitation (we agreed on it in January when they were split up). He filed for a modification of visitation for every weekend and every day that the children are not in school, for our youngest and said he wanted no visitation with our oldest (SO and oldest DS fight, dad was given a choice by the GAL, son or SO, he chose SO), I filed a motion to dismiss based on the fact that there have been no significant changes in circumstances.
I am honestly not the bitter ex, she posts so much all over the internet about the situation, lies about me, threats etc. I had been ignoring her (not looking at her pages etc.) but, my lawyer said I should monitor her posts looking for evidence.
Our DD was diagnosed by a team of doctors as having Aspergers, she has received therapy for speech, ot and pt for years, dad has always objected and was over ruled by the GAL. Dad refuses to continue therapy practices during his time and refuses to keep DD's schedule, will not put DD to bed before 11 and refuses to use the medication the doctors prescribed. SO posts how I supposedly caused DD's symptoms and that the therapists and specialists only want money so they diagnosed our DD as having Aspergers.
SO has started coming to pickups and drop offs recording the entire thing, no clue why, but it is annoying. My lawyer said to let everything go and give her more rope to hang them both with.
Really what can I do? If you read her posts on the internet (tuns of different sites) you can tell she's mentally unstable, she talks about her plans to replace me as mom, her plans to teach the children about sex, masturbation, positions etc. and you can easily tell she is obsessed with me. We go back to court Wednesday.
Has any one else had to deal with a situation like this?