Hi to you all,
I have not been on Mothering for a long time and just thought I'd check in for some moral support and found this thread. I am 45, our dd is 7, my dh is 48. Our biggest challenge is erectile dysfunction. I have gotten pretty good at charting and knowing when it would be a good time to try and then he is unable to provide the semen. It is so frustrating for both of us. He talked about trying something like Viagra, but we are also searching for other options.
For me, it is getting frustrating because I feel like I am doing so much to optimize our chances (diet, herbs, yoga, charting, next week starting acupuncture) and he clearly is not as obsessed as I am and he's embarrassed and frustrated about his inability to perform when needed.
Any ideas or anyone have this challenge?