after seperating before going on the first date?
My husband and I had been planning to seperate since February 2012, we knew it was happening but for convenience I stayed in the home until this month. I moved out two weeks ago.
However, I have been asked out on a date (already!) by an old friend/ high school boyfriend that I haven't seen in 12 years, and I'm unsure if I should go. I really want to, but I'm scared that it's just way too soon. Not because I'm still emotionally attached to my ex (I am sooooo over him) but mostly because I worry about what other people will think. Also, I figured that I would wait to even go out one time until I had the divorce finalized. But I had been planning to leave for two years (he only knew about it starting in Feb, but I knew about it long before) and I feel like I've been single waaaay longer than the official two week timeline. I don't want a serious relationship again, but this guy is pretty perfect, and I also would like the chance to catch up with him.
So...what did you do, and if you were me, would you go?