Hello wise mamas,
So I have spoken a few times with my midwife and she has sort of jumped over the breech discussion. Obviously, she is not wanting me to focus on baby being breech (transverse really) and I understand the "we will cross that bridge when we get there" mentality. However, it has been mentioned that if baby is in a breech position at delivery that I could continue to have the homebirth. Perhaps she said this for my own benefit, not sure, but I have decided that I am not comfortable delivering a breech baby at home.
How can I speak to her about this without insinuating that she is incompetent? It has nothing to do with her skills, it is my own fears I don't trust. Also, since she doesn't really want to discuss it, how can I speak with her about it when I am only in the beginning of third trimester. I don't want her thinking I am obsessed with baby being breech, I just want to discuss things frankly.