Well -- here is my tentative plan. It's longer than I want it to be, but I'm not sure what I can cut (hopefully the Hep Lock line -- I know that it's standard procedure for FTMs, but it might not be for VBACS). Unfortunately, intermittent monitoring is also standard for FTM's but not for VBACs so that needs to be on there (and hopefully is not a conflict when I discuss it with my doctor). I *think* I can remove all initial exams on my chest, since I'm fairly certain that's already hospital procedure (and I know that the "golden hour" is standard procedure - to delay vit K and eye goop if breastfeeding) but I'm paranoid -- I'll ask my doctor.
This is something that she'll sign off on and it will be placed in my chart prior to delivery, and then DH & my doula will have copies when we go in. It's mostly in case she is not there when we check in/deliver. I do have her personal cell phone number, and she's VERY good about making it to births (family practice docs don't get a whole lot of babies, and they catch most of them -- it's not this everyday thing like it is with some OBs).
I know I do need to add a line at the top with my name, DH's name, doula's name, and baby boy's name. Any feedback at all is appreciated. (I mean it.)