Welcome! I live in Tosa, too. You're right, not many attachment parents out there. My kids are 4-1/2 and 15 mo. Have you joined the Milwaukee Attachment Parenting Yahoo Group - simply an online discussion board. You will find more like-minded people in the greater Milwaukee area, although most don't seem to be in Tosa.
Let me know if you ever want to meet up - Jacobus Park works out really well for us because there are age-appropriate activities for both kids to be engaged in.
-Michele
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