Abouttobe5- My kiddo tends to come in the bed early in the morning (1-2ish) and he is also a snuggler. Means I'm pretty much stuck with a small pillow between my legs and DS in my arms.
DH seems to get the hint that the queen bed is too small for all 3.5 of us so he sleeps in the guest room after DS moves in.
That's impressive re: your DH. I think b/c our room is the most airy right now, (we close the kids windows at night and use fans only - I'm neurotic about that stuff, too many media stories!), either one of us would be hard pressed to move into another room! Although the basement is nice and cool....hmmmmm.... :)