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Probably out of the club

post #1 of 11
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I had spotting for 5 days then yesterday afternoon I had lots of clots and heavy bleeding and light frequent cramps. I'm visiting friends across the country so they took me to an er and frustrating enough they have no definitive answer. Urine test shows positive pregnancy but u/s didn't find a 10 week baby but possibly a sac or tissue in my uterus and a cyst on my ovary. Going to hospital again tomorrow to rule out ectopic. Dh is not with me and I feel very empty and alone. And of course DD is feeding off my energy and has been having meltdowns all morning. Might as well take me off the list since they could not find a baby or heartbeat.
I feel mixed. I really liked the 2.5 yr age spacing and felt like DD was ready to be a sister and I was ready. But on one hand I'm grateful my body can reject whatever abnormalities were there. But now I'm dreading getting through my first mc then trying to get p g again. I hate the first trimester and Dont look forward to repeating it again.

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post #2 of 11

Oh no, I'm so sorry.  hug.gif  Sounds like it could possibly be a blighted ovum?

post #3 of 11

I'm sorry.  xoxox

post #4 of 11

I'm so sorry.  :(   I just went through my first mc in March and it was really rough.  It's one of those difficult experiences that we women share and it's not an initiation I would wish on anyone.  Personally, I got pregnant again right away and had mixed feelings because on the one hand it was healing to have a new pregnancy growing inside me, on the other I was afraid of losing it again.  Good luck to you and if you need support the grief forums here were a tremendous source of comfort and connection for me.  So, so sorry you're going through this.  

post #5 of 11

many hugs and healing energy your way.

post #6 of 11

I'm sorry for your loss KimKim.  Even though I don't know you my heart hurts for you.  Sending you love. 

post #7 of 11
I'm sorry for your loss kimkim. I hope you are able to get back to your DH soon. His support should help a lot. Try to be gentle with yourself.

The pregnancy loss board is a great place to air your feelings and find other women who've been there and "get it" or if you have any questions about what's happening or what to expect. Hugs and peace to you.
post #8 of 11

I'm so sorry for your loss, please make sure that you take care of yourself during these difficult days.

post #9 of 11

I am so sorry, it must be so hard to be away from DH while this is happening. I hope you get home to him soon and can recover quickly.

post #10 of 11

I'm so sorry. Sending lots of love and healing energy your way. 

post #11 of 11

I am so sorry - you are in my thoughts.

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