Hey, I just wanted to come back and update this thread, in case any other mom's of twins had read it. My twins arrived a little over 4 months ago, and we get out 3-4 times a week and make multiple trips in and out of the car.
I wound up getting three Graco MyRide 70 carseats. The two little girls are RF in the captains chairs of my Odyssey. We have a really good stroller, that can be navigated with one hand (city mini). I have a "Mommys Hook" attached to the stroller that my three year old has to hold on to when we are walking in stores, parking lots, etc.
I cant even imagine how we would use two bucket seats. I never see twin mommies out in public with buckets that are being used in a safe way. I see lots of twin moms pushing one cart full of groceries and pulling a cart that has one bucket balanced on the top and one bucket down below.
I am typically by myself when we go places, so either I would have to have a stroller that snaps buckets in, or I would have to put buckets in a cart (huge no no). If we are going into a friends house, to playgroup, or any place that isnt for shopping, I would have to hold one bucket on each arm and then keep up with my three year old. It just sounds completely impossible to me. If I dont use my stroller, I strap one kid onto the front and one onto the back with boba carriers.
shopping: If it's a small trip, I put things on the bottom of my stroller. If it's a big trip, I put things in a cart and pull the cart with one hand (with my toddler in it) and push the stroller with the other. I'd have to have two carts anyway if I was using buckets.
So, basically, the only advantage I can see of using buckets would be to not have to wake kids up when transferring them from the car to the house/store/etc. But, since you shouldnt let kids continue to sleep in carseats anyway..I just dont see what the advantage would actually be.
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