DH and I (first-timers-- I'm ~6 weeks) just have zero desire to see our baby via ultrasound. Is that crazy? I did have an u/s with my first pregnancy (miscarried in April) at around 8 weeks because of spotting, and we saw a ~6 wk sac with no HB... but it's not because of that. We felt this way before the m/c, too.
I'm not sure exactly why... Because it's not really that great of a "portrait" anyway? It feels like an invasion of baby's privacy? LOL, IDK. It's not that it's "unnatural," because I am fine with the judicious use of technology, and shoot-- I'm not exactly the world's most pro-"natural" person (don't even really buy organic). I can't put my finger on it, but DH feels the same way.
I do NOT want to know the sex until birth and I'm not into any u/s unless needed anyway, though I am leaning towards the 20 week anatomy scan as my only "routine" u/s. No (or almost no) u/s are fine, even preferable, as far as our HB MW is concerned, so no issues there. I'm actually (crazy, I know), thinking of wearing a blindfold and earplugs if/when I do get my 20 week scan (partly because I REALLY don't want to accidentally see/hear about the sex). And I don't even really want a still "photo" from the u/s.
Is that insane? Am I the only one?