To UCmamaTomany, I wanted to suggest youth theatre for your family if you are looking for a generally accepting peer and adult group. I can't vouch for them all but most are very, very open-minded and accepting. My DD 15 is a camp/classroom aide as well as a long time student (since 3) and last fall an 7-year-old child who was "male" one class came back as "female" and has been so ever since. It's been a total non-issue. Theatre can be good for all sorts of kids. My DS 11 is straight but gets bullied for other things (like our not being religious) and has found a great group of buddies who could care less about his differences.
Anyway, you might look into your local programs. Like I said, I can't vouch for them all. I've seen some I wouldn't put my kid in for artistic reasons but I've yet to come across one that wasn't church related NOT be openly accepting to any sort of different child.