I'm dealing with a new problem and it's making me sad.
My lovely son wants to be held/ tickled/ kissed/ touched a lot. It makes him laugh and happy, it calms him down, it's how he wants to explore the world. That's fine. I'm happy to hold him, wear him, kiss him a lot. And of course breast fed on demand.
The problem then is that by 8pm, when he goes to sleep. My husband wants to snuggle with me, and kiss and touch. And I want not have anything warm or skin or lips or wet or anything near me. It's difficult.
Anyone else dealing with this? Any hints to not touch myself "out" with the baby so I still have touch left for my husband? Our relationship is stronger than it's ever been before and I want to make sure it stays that way. Touch has been major for both of us- not sex per se, but touching- always in our relationship. I don't want it to go away.