Outcome is more important to me too.
Chances I'll die from hospital acquired infection is 0 if I'm NOT in hospital.
Chances of an infection going straight to my brain from the epidural is 0 if I'm NOT in a hospital.
Chances of complications from surgery that was not actually needed, but due to CP impatience is 0 if I'm not in a hospital.
If you think I'm being over dramatic it may be due to reading this article this morning. A perfectly healthy woman DIED IN HOSPITAL after acquiring meningitis in her brain from the carelessness of the anesthesiologist and the lack of proper care after she started showing symptoms. Her son has had to grow up without his mother.
You bet outcome is way more important than anything else. My children deserve to still have their mother around after birth.
None of our choices are without risk, even choosing to birth in a hospital has risks, some of which are not present with an out of hospital birth. Please stop trying to make out that there are no risks with hospital births, as the risks are very real, just never discussed by those who are against out of hospital options.



Follow Mothering