I'll go ahead and take a stab at this. It's because:
1.) you started a thread asking very clearly and explicitly for opinions.....but you've dismissed pretty much every opinion that doesn't line up exactly with what you wrote in your OP.
2.) you've said some incredibly insensitive and offensive things wrt child loss.
3.) you're spreading misinformation on a public forum. You've had now a couple of people who've ACTUALLY BEEN THROUGH THIS BEFORE and an ACTUAL DOCTOR trying to explain it to you, but you're being dismissive and argumentative with them.
4.) Gently-- your attitude is incredibly smug and superior. If you don't understand that, I can highlight some quotes of yours to show you what I mean.