My little one is 2 and half now and has been ECed basically since birth. He has pooped in the potty consistently since 5 months and it took us much longer to get most pees in the potty. Now he can basically get himself to the potty or the yard without direction if he is naked from the waist down. if he has on pants/underwear/training pants/diaper he'll just pee in whatever he is wearing and say nothing about it. Occasionally he will pull his own pants down or tell us that he needs help with it. He always tells us he needs to poop, but usually just pees in his pants. If we are at home I usually let him go without pants, but we do have to leave the house occasionally.
he is pretty unimpressed with his "big kid" underwear and training pants. he will pee in them just like he is wearing a diaper. the sensation of wet clothes doesn't bother him.
we try to keep an eye out for his signals, but he is just too active and independent for us to take him to the potty every time we think he needs to pee.
I just can't figure out how to get past this. He knows what to do if he is naked, but he can't always be naked.
I would appreciate any suggestions. thanks