i'm in a bit of a quandary here. DS is 20 months old and pretty much relies on me 99% of the time to put him to sleep at night via nursing. During the day my parents watch him and he naps just fine without nursing and we are in the process of night weaning which is going really well so far (fingers crossed). Oh, and we've sleep shared since ds was born. Its been great .
We are expecting our second in late December when DS will be 2. When I think back to my first 1.5 yrs with ds and sleep sharing.. well, we've had our rocky moments. Not sleeping, constant nursing, etc. I've finally got him sleeping well and I really don't want the new baby to wake him (or him wake the new baby) andddd I really don't to nurse both kiddies at night (I don't thin kit will be fair to DS to see his new sibling nursing while I tell him that bobo is ni-night).
We are renovating our main level and it will be done in a few weeks. So we will be moving upstairs from the basement where we have lived so far. We will be moving into new bedrooms and there will be change to get used to. Considering this, figured that this would be a good time for DH to take over night time with DS. Our rooms are small and we have a king bed, to fit another bed int eh room would meant hat it has to be right up against ours (which kindof defeats the purpose).... So should we take this time to introduce DS to his new room where DH will sleep with him? He is super cuddly and I don't want to traumatize him - DH and him to cuddle in bed but when he wants comfort he always looks to me (pretty much because of bf which I know makes DH feel left out).
Any one have experience with this?