I have been very hush hush about this pregnancy because I am SO not looking forward to all the unsolicited advice! I'm a neonatal nurse at a local hospital and I had my last baby delivered by a CNM at a different hospital (that was more VBAC-friendly) and my coworkers flipped out that I didn't just have a repeat c/s and stay at the hospital we work at. I can only imagine what they would think if I told them i was planning a home birth this time!!! They are not shy with their opinions!
When I told some coworkers that I was having a second miscarriage, instead of the usual "I'm so sorry's" they said: "well, you didn't give your body enough time to heal from the first one, what are you doing getting pregnant again??" ::sigh::
Anyway... I'm rather enjoying keeping this new little bub a secret. Something special that only my hubby and kids (and you guys!) know about. As excited as I am to share with the world, I really don't look forward to everyone getting in my personal business again.
Anyone else getting unsolicited advice already?