Is that too much to ask? *~* Baby is 16 months now and to this point I have mostly been wearing nursing tanks, because they give the easiest access since baby nurses frequently throughout the day. What I don't want: So much structure in a nursing bra that it won't fold over properly to allow baby access to the breast.
But I'm tired of looking flat-chested in these nursing tanks. The reason I wear the tanks is both easy access and comfort, as well as the fact that I can wear another shirt overtop and then when I pull the other shirt up to nurse, I still have the tank on and no one sees the fat rolls on my waist (I'm much more concerned with someone seeing my back fat than I am having them see my bare breast. :P I have several shirts now though with stretchy necks that I can nurse out the top in, and I'm dying to get a nice cute bra that will make me look perky again (though I'm willing to settle for "not totally droopy" at this point.) Anyhow, I'm tired of being shapeless and I want a nice, padded, sexy bra, in some nice bright (non-white, non-nude color) fabric. But still gives me semi-decent access. I am willing to put up with a slightly less comfortable bra, as long as it's not going to block ducts while I nurse, and is not so padded that baby has to compete with the bra to get in the proper space to nurse, etc. Does anyone have any ideas?