I am a bit at loss here. My DS is seriously uncontrollable at the moment. He is 4, diagnosed with ADHD and really cute when well behaved, but becomes a maniac monster when he gets tired and/or hungry or whatever.
Today he just hit his big sister (DD1 - 6 years) with a wooden plank out of a toddler bed (like this two planks you can take out to allow the toddler to leave the bed on his own?) He hit her on her head without any fight or anything.
He just said (according to DD) "I am going to hit you" And she tried to run but couldn't run fast enough :(
I didn't hear anything because there was no fight. I obviously hurt DD crying and intervened at once (neither gently nor calm I must admit). DS had to got to bed immediatly (because not controllalbe = really dead tired) and I took care of DD who knocked her head on a cupboard when he hit her.
What should I do now? I will see an occupational therapist tomorrow about him. He is newly diagnosed, as is DD1. I don't know how I can make sure that DD is safe - I do not even think he did hurt her intentionally, but that doesn't make it less dangerous. What to do?