I went and answered your survey - I haven't had overtly, dramatically spiritual births, but each has been a transformative spiritual experience, and I figure it can't hurt to have another response!
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Hopefully, I'm not too late on the discussion. Thank you for your openness and sharing about your family. Being Muslim, I have friends and family who have been/are involved in polygamous relationships, which is similar to polyamory, and one of the issues that frequently comes up is how to allocate time between the various couples. In your family's relationships, how do you balance your time between your husband and partner? And them with their partners?
We have a pretty decent structure in place (which will likely fall to pieces when baby is born, lol!). Monday evenings the 4 of us have a house meeting; Tuesday night I go out on a date with DH; Thursday night I go out on a date with DP; Friday night DH & his DP go out on their date. The rest of the time we are all busy juggling kids, soccer schedules, acting jobs for my 10 year old, school stuff, eating, etc, that we really just do whatever is going to work best on any given day. From the outside I am sure it looks like crazy chaos, but it works for us!