Feeling kinda overwhelmed by the whole process.
Back story: I got pregnant twice as a teenager but lost both before 8 weeks. Went to the doctor- no reason found for either.
I am now 26 years old. My fiancee is 28 years old. We are getting married in February. We finally have decided we want to start having a family.
We know this will be a long and difficult process. In April 2010, my fiancee became a paraplegic due to a car accident. Men who have spinal cord injuries have difficulties with fertility.
I have been looking at lots of threads here and I am overwhelmed by a new language so to speak. I don't know any of the abbreviations and many terms.
I have gone off birth control pills (talked to my doctor), started taking prenatal vitamins, cut back on my coffee, trying to stress less, looked up a fertility chart (and I will be fertile between July 20th-25th).
Feeling overwhelmed by it all.
Its hard seeing so many of my friends and family having children for both of us.
Any advice or suggestions would be appreciated.