Ok...weird title, I know. BUT
I'm not ready to "come out" to anyone IRL yet (we had a loss at 15 weeks this spring, and I need to come to terms with being pregnant again), but we have a family BBQ with DP's family tomorrow, and Sunday we are celebrating my sister's b-day at my parents.
My family, at least, is pretty big on wine and bubbly for special occasions like b-days.
If I flat out turn it down, they'll know what's up. Last winter, I used the excuse that I was on a cleanse, but it was right after Chrismas, so it made sense, and my mom commented on my "cleanse" when I told her I was pg a few weeks later, so I can't use that excuse a second time around!
I was thinking of taking a glass and subtely dumping it out when no one is looking....but I"m not so sure it I'll get a chance!
Anyone has ideas on how to "fake drink"?!?!