I'm looking for resources for parenting very hurt children who are taking out their pain on everyone around them and make for challenging parenting. The mainstream parenting books don't come close to fitting the bill and they are beyond the basic "just love them" because they are going out of their way to MAKE you react (yes, I know this is a very RAD trait and this is why I posted that it's not a RAD child).
There really just doesn't seem to be a lot of support for the middle of the road. Foster, adopted or even bio (when parents have realized that their behaviors have done more harm than good and are trying to turn around a very nasty set of behaviors borne of a child's pain and feelings of worthlessness).
Anyone have resources? Books? Forums? Organizations? Links?