Im pregnant. I am slightly freaked out as the reality of how much life will change sinks in. DS is 15 months old now, he is very high need and needs lots of attention. Im only 6 weeks or so, so he'll be about 2 when the new LO comes. Im really stressed out about night time. DS is a VERY light sleeper. He currently goes to sleep in his crib and then wakes up to come to bed with me when he wants. he nurses all through the night, and usually wants to be laying on my stomach with my shirt up (or off) when he's not nursing. I cannot imagine having him and the new baby tugging at me all night to nurse. And I honestly am a little overwhelmed at the thought of it. Im considering night time weaning to see if that helps him sleep more soundly. Right now it seems like he nurses for a long time and i have to encourage him to lay his head down and go back to sleep. No one is sleeping, him or me, or my SO. Up until now i've been ok with that, but the thought of having to tend to a new infant is, again, overwhelming.
advice? input? surely other mamas have been worried about this?