my 1st birth was an unplanned c/s. My dd's heartrate dropped below half of what it was supposed to be and never went back up. I was only dilated 7 cm so they decided to do a c/s. Was it necessary? I'll never know the answer to that ?. I am grateful to the MDs who just may have saved my dd's life
My 2nd dd was a VBAC! I love my dds equally but this birth was one of the most fantastic experiences of my life! the difference in recovery was remarkable.