this is my 3rd baby, I do feel movement now (I'm 19 weeks) but it's not nearly as constant and idk . . present? as it will be in the later months. Still easily dismissed, if you didn't know what you are feeling. I've heard the heartbeat, seen the baby on ultrasound, and yet . . . some of the reality hasn't sunk in yet. It's been, yet again, a very, very, easy pregnancy, few real symptoms. So I feel a bit in limbo.
A large part has to do with that only some of our friends know. Neither of our families do yet. This is the 3rd baby in 4 years (2009, 2011, and then early 2013) and some of our family will be less than pleased, so we have held off telling - Saturday, at our youngest's first birthday party, is the "big" day. And yeah, I'm totally showing, even though as a plus size person, it can be mistaken for fat at this point. I hate keeping the pregnancy under wraps, as if I'm ashamed of it.
So - that's where my limbo feelings come from. I am sure they will ease up as the baby gets bigger and more obvious. I LOVE LOVE LOVE feeling the baby move. It's my favorite part of pregnancy, even when it becomes uncomfortable.