I think that the DD clubs are generally "closed" but I don't want to presume anything on behalf of the group.
SweetMama34, I understand the nervousness. I have mild MS, on and off. But only occasional and very mild. Like I just feel "icky" sometimes, and fainly nauseous and slightly faint/dizzy. I am also very tired. But my symptoms were the same with DS...Also, I have to pee all.the.time. and I am SOOO thirsty! I am also nursing DS and find my nipples a bit more sensitive than usual. I try to remember to be thankful that I feel quite well, but part of me wants to have strong symptoms, kwim? I have to say I feel less connected than I did with DS, but then I also have DS to focus my attention on, KWIM? And in these early, early days its still so sureal.
We told my parents last night. They were really excited, as I was sure they would be. With DS we waited until 10 weeks to tell my immediate family and DHs immediate family, but this time we decided to tell family right away and we'll wait until 12 weeks for everyone else. MY BIL/SIL are expecting as well (early April DD) and they tell everyone as soon as they POAS. Not that that is bad/wrong, I guess DH and I are just much more cautious, probably because I was always raised that you didn't tell before 12 weeks (but then my mom suffered from many, many miscarriages) Who/when are others telling?
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