So with DD some close friends of ours guessed that we were expecting before we were ready to tell, because I was not drinking wine. Even my "dehydrated and headachy from working on the farm all day in the hot sun" excuse did not fool them for a minute.
Fast forward to this pregnancy. We are only 5 weeks 1 day and not ready to share. Going to a party this afternoon (Same group of close friends). DH and I are working on our strategy to not get outed early. Any tips? I really want to wear my cute cargo maternity pants, but I think I will have to suck it up (literally) and wear my jeans, just to be safe that my wardrobe does not give me away. Also not going with the I don't feel well enough to drink approach. Instead, I plan to fake drink, and switch glasses with DH every so often, so he will be drinking for two.
We also have not yet told our DD (3 years old) because she repeats everything. It is possible that she does know, because we have not been super stealth talking in front of her, but so far she has not spilled the beans.
Any other tips?