I was able to labor naturally in the hosp to over 8cm, so I feel really good that I was in labor and with this breech presentation, glad I stayed here. I did feel both internally and externally the way his feet were split. He wasin a pigeon yoga pose, kind of. Baby hasn't left either of our arms for more than 5 min, and never left out sight. I did skin to skin and latch in the er, and have been cosleeping with him all night. Kept my placenta, no pressure to vac, circ, or anything.
Thanks for the good thoughts all!